
Well, today we had yet another trip to my buddy Doc. and this is where I received my GET OVER IT YOU GOT NOTHING TO DEAL WITH MOMENT!! It was just me & the 2 boys & we walk in & there is a wheel chair sitting next to a typical "Pahrumpian" woman, I then look over in the sick room & see a little boy who I think is maybe 6 or 7 trying to make his way to some toys on the other side of the room. My heart broke in 2. This little boy had no movement from his knees down, I think. So he was using his arms to pull himself on the floor. His poor little fingers where all crimped & bent, & he couldn't move his legs, he was the cutest little boy, when we got in the room he started chatting with Braiden. They were playing & laughing & he asked how old Braiden was, I said he just turned 2, & the little boy said he was 11, WOW he was no bigger than Alexee, yes she may be a brute for a girl but how sad for this little boy, he was so small. He just kept smiling @ the baby & playing with Braiden, then Braiden ran over to a chair & just hopped up on it like you think any little boy can. Not this little boy, it took all he had to get in the chair next to Braiden, when he was finally 1/2 in it, he looked over at me & said it felt like he was going to fall off, which he was about to fall off. So it was one of those awkward moments, because you are waiting for "Pahrump Mom" to help her little boy, but then you realize she isn't going to get off her BUTT, so you can't sit & watch anymore. So I go over & slide another chair under him so he doesn't fall to the ground. Then he looks over at my perfectly healthy 2 year old & says, "I'm going to eat good so one day I can be as strong as him". Fighting back tears I look at this little boy who gave everything he had to sit in a chair by himself, then I look at my kids & it hits me, "just when you think". Here I am whining about RSV and this ladies little boy will never run, or even walk, but he was so brave & happy! I could have slapped his mother, but I guess we all handle things different. I did however want to pick him up & bring him home, after I slapped her. The moral of the story here is I need to remember to NEVER take our health for granted!! I am so lucky to be blessed with 3 perfect children! Just when you think you have it bad, remember there is always somebody who has it WAY worse!
Your post brought tears to my eyes. So sad and so true. I am so quick to take the health of not only Marlee but Dave and I for granted because I know no different. Then something like what happened to you happens to me and it just puts everything into perspective.
ReplyDeleteIn your defense your poor kiddies were very sick..you were not being dramatic in the least bit. Rarely do you play the poor pitiful me card or complain for that matter. We all get a turn, right?
Sissie, you have had your fair share of heartache and sadness.
I told you the other day that not one day goes by that I don't think of the Anderson's..I can't even fathom the pain some families go through.
Okay, enough..I will end on a funny note. I am laughing at your comment about a typical "Pahrumpian". Is that code for white trash? You SO do not fit in out there!
As usual, love the picture.
Wow, I didn't realize I wrote that much!
ReplyDeleteYou got me, Pahrumpian is my nice way of saying "TRAILER TRASH"! I once lived in a trailer so I can say that!! I forgot to write on a good note, the kids are COOTIE FREE, YEA!!!!
ReplyDeleteI love the term Parhumpian. You could always tell them from the people that haven't lived there very long. What a sad post. I hate seeing kids like that. It makes me so grateful that I have healthy kids. So glad yours are doing better.
ReplyDeleteBy the way you will never be a Parhumpian. You have all your teeth. :)
Don't mind my spelling on that last comment. I know Lesly is going to be checking....
ReplyDeleteoh my gosh sissy... that post gave me goose bumps. how sad for that little boy. i do the same thing. i will be having a down day and then something happens that makes me realize that i don't have it bad at all. you had a pretty rough few weeks though. i would have broke down and called mom crying asking for help...
ReplyDeleteChildren amaze me all the time, with the things they say and do. They really do help you stay grounded, even when they are not your children. I'm teaching the little sunbeams now, it's so rewarding to be with them. They are so loving, naturally, just like that little boy. I think they help me be a better mom too. Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear the kiddies are doing better. Love you, sorry we haven't talked in awhile.
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